The average Tiktoker is familiar with the popular dating coach Shera Seven, the owner of the famous words ‘sprinkle sprinkle’.
Coming across her on Tiktok, the modern woman who has had a dip in their relationship has found renewed hope in their dating life.
Shera’s teachings are a mix of ‘how to make your man do this and that’ mixed with a high level of sarcasm. The kind that gets you laughing as you drown in her words carefully. Due to her popular remarks and wit, she has garnered over a million followers across all social media platforms even without being on Tiktok.
Despite a lot of teachings and videos made about men, Shera has given some advice to help women. Although some have been proven effective in dealing with problems, others have been shunned in respect to women who are seeking healthy relationships because it’s no news that Shera advocates more about money than she does for love.
In her live YouTube video, Shera talks about ways to get a man to spend his money on a woman and here are her magic tips:
1. Look better than him
That’s right, Shera had said that while clearly emphasizing that men treat pretty women or those who look better than them way more than they treat the other ones they look better than. Pretty privilege is a great deal, you would notice even animals have such privilege. White cats over black ones, cute dogs over the wild ones even puppies have privilege over dogs.
A man that knows he’s fine is a menace to women because he knows that his looks can get him what he desires without having to lay a finger on anything.
You might not be prettier than him but look better than him, take care of yourself, your scent, your hair, get your nails done, look good. Men spend on women who look good.
2. Give him problems so he can find a financial solution to
Play dumb and give him problems, make him feel smart and he would naturally want to find solutions to your problems. Let them rescue you with solutions that they come up with so they think it’s their idea.
Men tend to spend their money where they know they’re needed. It’s ok to be all independent but a man would still want to feel desired by his woman so it’s advisable to give him problems that he can solve from time to time just to keep him busy and glued around you. He needs to be thinking of ‘how do I help her pay her bills’ etc.
He falls in love by how much he invests in you.
3. You need to have main character energy
According to Shera, you don’t just need to only be pretty. You need to enter a room and command the energy in the room. If a man sees that when he takes you out, it’s as though you’re the main character, everyone wants to talk to you, he starts to see you as a big catch.
Men love competition, they love a mental stimulation and if he can tell that you’re that girl when he’s out with you, then he would want to spend on you.
Shera Seven has once again impacted her knowledge to women to help level the dating field.
Vivi Ukoha 
Amanda Jide